How can you tell if a Gemini man is in love with you?
A Gemini lives in their imagination which can make living in the real-world less desirable because it is too grounded for his liking and this is true for a Gemini man in love. Since this sign enjoys the intellectual rim of life, a relationship that involves emotions and feelings can be somewhat off putting to a Gemini because of this, they don’t put too much emphasizes on relationships; they know and understand that feelings change and they themselves constantly are evolving. But even with their knowledge and their interpretation of relationships, that doesn’t mean a Gemini man won’t enter into a relationship, they will just be hard to get and that much harder to keep
It’s a question you’ve been pondering since that charming Gemini guy walked into your life. He’s great, isn’t he? Most men born under this sign are.
They’re fun, carefree and they embrace each and every experience presented to them. He’s special and you’re beginning to feel as though there might be the potential for something meaningful to develop between you two in the future. The only problem is that you have no clue what he’s feeling or thinking. Asking him certainly is an option but you don’t want to come on too strong. Fortunately, there are ways to gain some insight into what exactly he’s feeling without having to back him into a corner by asking countless questions.
Gemini men are amazing partners. They are very attentive and they strive to make the life of the woman they love, ideal. If your guy is starting to fall in love he’s going to be at your beck and call. He’ll make himself available whenever you need him and he’ll be hard to get rid of when you need to focus on other things. A very easy way to tell whether or not he’s feeling emotionally connected to you is by how often he’s initiating contact. Think about the past week or so. Who has called who more? Did your guy call you before you had a chance to call him or were you the one chasing him down? A Gemini who is feeling devoted to a woman will want to be around her as much as possible. He’ll call her several times throughout the day and he’ll move his schedule around just to accommodate hers. If you’re trying to pin him down for a date and he’s constantly got one excuse after another, he’s not in love yet.
Does the man you’re involved with seem interested in you? This seems like a silly question but there’s a reason for it. Gemini men are notorious for not getting invested too quickly with women. If he views you as a casual fling, he’s not going to ask too many questions about what’s going on in your world. If you start talking about a problem you may have, he’ll seem disinterested or he may even be so bold as to change the subject. This is disheartening to a woman who feels an emotional attachment to the man in question, but it’s a great barometer for where his feelings are.
When a Gemini man starts to fall in love, he’ll be a sponge in terms of learning about you. He’ll ask endless questions all centered on you and your life. You may even begin to feel uncomfortable with the relentless attention, but it’s definitely a positive sign. He wants to know you to your inner core and you’ll become his absolute favorite subject of conversation.
It’s worth noting that Gemini men do take some time to really fall in love at a deep level with a woman. During the time before that, he may seem disinterested at times to the point that you’ll wonder if he’s contemplating ending the relationship. Work may suddenly take precedence over seeing you or he’ll spend more time with his friends. If he’s the man you believe is meant to be with you, be patient and confident in yourself. If you become overly clingy or too emotional you’ll just risk pushing him away. Take it slow and enjoy the journey. He’ll appreciate that you’re not the dramatic type who wants a commitment too soon.
So there is a wonderful Gemini man that has caught you eye… are you patient enough to deal with him? They are two halves of the same coin, hating something one minute and finding something to love about the next. Gemini are naturally curious and always seek new information or new adventures. They are divergent and can change their minds at any second and every second. To deal with this you will need to be flexible and might want to consider keeping your opinions to yourself.
The key element to understanding a Gemini man is letting the air sign in him be free. Allow him to be as open and free as he needs. If you don’t he will run far and run fast if you try to keep him tied down. He is rather independent and needs to be able to go his own way. If you are strong enough then let him do what he wants to do, when he wants to do it. All you need to do is make sure he knows that you are there for him at all times… that you can be home.
Gemini men are intelligent, flexible and adaptable. If you want to attract one, you will need to embody these same traits. Ask him out, suggest an activity date. They are energetic and love to be on the go. With a Gemini you need to mentally stimulate them as well as keeping up with them physically. Great date ideas might involve hiking or biking and if you are bold maybe a game of basketball. They love to party. Maybe you know of an upcoming party that will be lively and upbeat? Keep your game fresh and new and you’ll have your Gemini man hooked.
If you are working him for the long haul, do not ever and I mean do not ever, ever let him know you are working him for the long haul. He will run. Fight or flight was probably in part inspired by their nature. Variety and space are the keys in keeping your Gemini male. Often surprise him with a small gift or hidden handwritten notes. Do things together that promote future outings without it seeming as you are building a relationship like taking cooking or language classes or traveling somewhere neither of you have been. You are satisfying both his sense of curiosity and keeping him entertained all the while keeping you in his loop.
This mission, should you choose to take it, will be a fun one. Gemini men are a lot of work but you can get so much out of them. They do not stray, unless they are bored. They always seem to know a little bit about everything so you will always learn something. They like new things so you get to see so much that is around you. They are vigorous and stimulating, positive and happy and want to share it with someone. That someone could be you.
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